{"id":1432,"date":"2026-10-05T08:28:12","date_gmt":"2026-10-05T08:28:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/magazine\/?p=1432"},"modified":"2026-10-16T06:01:23","modified_gmt":"2026-10-16T06:01:23","slug":"clitoral-stimulation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/magazine\/sexual-wellness\/clitoral-stimulation\/","title":{"rendered":"Clitoral Stimulation: Tips, Techniques &amp; Pleasure Ideas"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1432\" class=\"elementor elementor-1432\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-75caef6 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"75caef6\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3cc2a03 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3cc2a03\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you\u2019ve stumbled across this article it\u2019s probably because you\u2019ve heard about how important <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/clitoral-stimulation\">clitoral stimulation<\/a> can be to good sex, but you\u2019ve got questions. Like, what techniques actually feel good? How can you incorporate clitoral stimulation during sex? Or maybe even why clitoral stimulation doesn\u2019t feel good for you. There\u2019s a lot to know beyond the headlines about the clitoris being a pleasure powerhouse, including some misconceptions.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-64acbe2 elementor-toc--minimized-on-tablet elementor-widget elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"64acbe2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;exclude_headings_by_selector&quot;:[],&quot;no_headings_message&quot;:&quot;No headings were found on this page.&quot;,&quot;headings_by_tags&quot;:[&quot;h2&quot;],&quot;marker_view&quot;:&quot;numbers&quot;,&quot;minimize_box&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;minimized_on&quot;:&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;hierarchical_view&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;min_height&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_laptop&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_tablet_extra&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_mobile_extra&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"table-of-contents.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__header\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__header-title\">\n\t\t\t\tIn this guide\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__toggle-button elementor-toc__toggle-button--expand\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-controls=\"elementor-toc__64acbe2\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-label=\"Open table of contents\"><svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-chevron-down\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__toggle-button elementor-toc__toggle-button--collapse\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-controls=\"elementor-toc__64acbe2\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-label=\"Close table of contents\"><svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-chevron-up\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M240.971 130.524l194.343 194.343c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941l-22.667 22.667c-9.357 9.357-24.522 9.375-33.901.04L224 227.495 69.255 381.516c-9.379 9.335-24.544 9.317-33.901-.04l-22.667-22.667c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941L207.03 130.525c9.372-9.373 24.568-9.373 33.941-.001z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div id=\"elementor-toc__64acbe2\" class=\"elementor-toc__body\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__spinner-container\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"elementor-toc__spinner eicon-animation-spin e-font-icon-svg e-eicon-loading\" aria-hidden=\"true\" viewBox=\"0 0 1000 1000\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M500 975V858C696 858 858 696 858 500S696 142 500 142 142 304 142 500H25C25 237 238 25 500 25S975 237 975 500 763 975 500 975Z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5c36549 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5c36549\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1538295 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1538295\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">In a hurry? Here are the highlights<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-03fb91b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"03fb91b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b4e943c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b4e943c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li><strong>The clitoris is a highly nerve dense structure in the vulva<\/strong>. It includes the head of the clitoris, as well as the crura and vestibular bulbs.<\/li><li><strong>Clitoral stimulation can heighten sex.<\/strong> Adding clitoral stimulation to any kind of sex has the potential to be highly pleasurable.<\/li><li><strong>There\u2019s direct and indirect clitorial stimulation<\/strong> and different techniques for each.<\/li><li><strong>There are toys made for clitoral stimulation<\/strong> like bullet vibes, wands, g-spot and rabbit vibrators, and suction toys.<\/li><li><strong>There are tons of techniques to stimulate the clitoris.<\/strong> Circular, up and down, V shaped, and side to side techniques that can be paired with different pressure, movements, speeds, and rhythms.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0533aa0 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"0533aa0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ae02536 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ae02536\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What Is Clitoral Stimulation?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c54a40d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c54a40d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-85a6708 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"85a6708\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Clitoral stimulation is exactly what it sounds like. It\u2019s stimulating the clitoris. This could mean touching, rubbing, sliding, holding or tapping with fingers, toys, or body parts on any part of the clitoris. During sex, clitoral stimulation can refer to vibration or suction, like the Pleasure Air Technology used in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/melt-2?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=20555767108&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjw2t3VBhD8ARIsAK0F6qwuncVmDmS6hOOSxq2VkTZkTwlPPiVOiWdAdtf7fQ8eqMMORdeDLjoaAhlwEALw_wcB&amp;utm_content=sea_brand&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=20555767108&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADHsvNIBul7YtWaszfG0uHx_bJsaO&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjw2t3VBhD8ARIsAK0F6qwuncVmDmS6hOOSxq2VkTZkTwlPPiVOiWdAdtf7fQ8eqMMORdeDLjoaAhlwEALw_wcB\">We-Vibe Melt 2<\/a>.<\/p><p>Usually when people talk about clitoral stimulation, they\u2019re referring to the external part of the clitoris, known as the head. This is the most nerve-dense part of the clitoris at the top of the vulva that is usually most sensitive to stimulation. But, the clitoris also extends deeper under the labia, which can be stimulated in its own way. There are literally hundreds of ways to stimulate the clitoris, which is why we\u2019ll get into the specific techniques in this article.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f10276e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f10276e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-117ad49 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"117ad49\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Benefits of Clitoral Stimulation<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b336917 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"b336917\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c46936 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4c46936\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The main benefit of clitoral stimulation is that it can help you feel turned on and may even make you climax. A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/10.1080\/0092623X.2017.1346530?url_ver=Z39.88-2003&amp;rfr_id=ori:rid:crossref.org&amp;rfr_dat=cr_pub%20%200pubmed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">2017 study<\/a> found that over 30% of cis women needed clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm and an additional 36% said that they didn\u2019t need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, but that their orgasm did feel better with clitoral stimulation during intercourse. Clitoral stimulation can encourage blood flow which helps the vagina get wet. If you enjoy penetration, clitoral stimulation can relax the vaginal and pelvic muscles and lift the uterus, all of which can help increase pleasure during penetration or internal stimulation.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8da4b3e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8da4b3e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-daeeffa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"daeeffa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Direct vs Indirect Clitoral Stimulation  <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-83e3df9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"83e3df9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5805303 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5805303\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>You\u2019ll often hear about direct or indirect clitoral stimulation if you read up on how to stimulate the clitoris. Both can be extremely pleasurable, but not for everyone. Direct clitoral stimulation means stimulating the head of the clitoris by touching the bud or pulling back the hood of the clitoris to touch the bud. And there are a lot of different techniques you can use for direct stimulation.<\/p><p>Indirect stimulation, on the other hand, is any type of stimulation to the clitoris that doesn\u2019t directly touch the head. This could mean touching the clitoral hood, making circles around the head of the clitoris, or applying pressure over the vulva or public bone. You can also indirectly stimulate the clitoris via the g-spot internally, and there are toys like g-spot vibrators or wands made for this. We\u2019ll get into specific techniques next.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ddbaa29 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ddbaa29\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Clitoral Stimulation Tips and Techniques to Explore<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-50d1ba7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"50d1ba7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you\u2019re new to exploring clitoral stimulation, start solo. Experiment with different areas of the clitoris, pressure, movements, speeds, and toys. Pay attention to the small signals your body gives you. What makes you want more and your muscles relax and what makes you pull away and tense up?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c68aa4 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1c68aa4\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e18a50 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3e18a50\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Experiment With Pressure<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c7fc29b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c7fc29b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-81877eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"81877eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>How much pressure you put on the clitoris will impact how pleasurable it feels. While the clitoris is nerve dense and very sensitive, how sensitive it actually feels is different from person to person, so the amount of pressure you need is very individual.<\/p><p>To experiment with pressure, start with locating the head of your clitoris by using your finger to feel the top of your vulva where your labia meet. Hold your finger or sex toy there, applying light pressure to start, or move your finger up and down, in circles, or other motions.<\/p><p>From there, try increasing the pressure by pressing your finger or toy harder on your clitoris. As your body becomes aroused, you will feel the clitoris get bigger and maybe more sensitive. You might find you need less pressure as it gets more sensitive, or it could be that you like more pressure with more arousal.<\/p><p>Take note of the amount of pressure you like by noticing how your body reacts. When you apply more pressure, do you find that you want to keep going? Do you naturally moan or exhale? Or when you apply pressure do you tense up, flinch, or naturally back off? These are all signs from your body about what feels good.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fc47433 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"fc47433\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-593dfb5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"593dfb5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Explore Different Movements <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e590040 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e590040\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-91dd1ad elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"91dd1ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>There are different ways you can move fingers, toys, or body parts on the clitoris to elicit different sensations.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6857fcd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6857fcd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li><strong>Circles<\/strong>: Moving in circles around the head of the clitoris is a very common technique that reliably feels good for a lot of people. You can start with small circles barely moving around the bud of the clitoris, so the head is still under your finger the whole time. Then gradually make the circles larger so your finger is circling fully around the clitoris, not making direct contact with it..<\/li><li><strong>Up and down<\/strong>: Trace your finger, toy, or partner\u2019s body part up and down the head of the clitoris. If you pay attention and feel closely, you will feel the harder tissue of the clitoris under the surface of the skin. Slide up and down this structure and see how it feels.<\/li><li><strong>V Shape<\/strong>: The clitoris is not just limited to the head. The crura and bulbs are also deeper underneath the labia. Stimulate the vulva in a V shape by taking two fingers and stroking the labia up and down. Start at the top of the vulva on the head of the clit. Then slowly move the fingers down the labia, applying pressure as you trace the labia. Continue gliding the fingers up and down the labia, all the way from the top of the clit of the bottom of the labia.<\/li><li><strong>Flicking or tapping<\/strong>: Tapping the head of the clitoris can be very pleasurable for some people. You can tap by quickly pressing the pad of your finger on the head of the clit or over the clitoral hood. You can also turn this into more of a flicking movement by making a quick, light brushing motion up or down.<\/li><li><strong>Back and forth<\/strong>: Just like it sounds, slide in a back and forth (left and right) movement over the head of the clitoris.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3553109 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"3553109\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4dad275 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4dad275\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Change the Speed and Rhythm<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ace422d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"ace422d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fe732f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"fe732f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>With any movement you do, you can change the speed and rhythm to give you different sensations. If you\u2019re going in circles, try them faster. If you\u2019re moving up and down, try a slower pace.<\/p><p>Rhythm comes in when you change the pattern or timing of the movement. So this could be tapping consistently and then stopping for a second and starting again. Or moving in circles around the clit and then really slowing down and applying less pressure for a few circles, and going back to fast circles again. You can get creative with the types of sensations you can create if you play with the speed, pattern, and consistency of the moment.<\/p><p>While exploring, pay attention to what your body is telling you. Notice if you feel your muscles relax, body temperature increasing, and the clitoris getting larger, versus your body hesitating, wincing, or resisting.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-66b18a2 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"66b18a2\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ca0a599 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ca0a599\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Try Indirect Stimulation <\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f5917bc e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f5917bc\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-41beee5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"41beee5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Indirect clitoral stimulation can be really tantalizing and an erotic way to build arousal. Not just that but the clitoris is highly sensitive, so some people find direct touch to be too much. This is common and natural!<\/p><p>For indirect stimulation, try circling around the head of the clitoris without actually touching the clit. You can stimulate higher on the vulva, on what\u2019s called the mons, which is the area where pubic hair grows.<\/p><p>You can also use the palm of your hand and cup the vulva, applying gentle or firm pressure. Or take the base of your hand and rest it on the pubic bone, gradually applying more pressure, or moving in circles. The base of your hand will disperse the pressure across the top of the vulva to more gently stimulate the clitoris.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b38951b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"b38951b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a585118 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a585118\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Explore Vibration<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-032a564 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"032a564\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-532ab18 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"532ab18\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/sex-toys\/vibrators\">Vibration<\/a> adds an entirely new type of sensation to clitoral stimulation. A good place to start is with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/sex-toys\/vibrators\/bullet-vibrators?_gl=1*76rbha*_up*MQ..*_ga*MTYwODk1ODcwMS4xNzkwMDM3ODA2*_ga_RG8NMYBXCS*czE3OTAwMzc4MDYkbzEkZzAkdDE3OTAwMzc4MDYkajYwJGwwJGgxODkzNjI1MTQ2*_ga_R3EHJG10ZX*czE3OTAwMzc4MDYkbzEkZzAkdDE3OTAwMzc4MDYkajYwJGwwJGgw\">bullet vibrators<\/a> that are designed to be used on the head of the clitoris. These will apply more precise stimulation externally to the clit. You can also use vibration inside the vagina to indirectly stimulate the clitoris by targeting the internal wall that is on the stomach side of the vagina with<a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/sex-toys\/vibrators\/g-spot-vibrator\"> g-spot vibrators<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/sex-toys\/vibrators\/rabbit-vibrator\">rabbit vibrators<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a71b344 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"a71b344\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1b39f3e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1b39f3e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Clitoral Stimulation With a Partner<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c3b355 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"3c3b355\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-07bcc4f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"07bcc4f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>For a lot of people, clitoral stimulation is really important for making partnered sex feel good, so it\u2019s an important need to take seriously. And there are lots of ways to incorporate it.<\/p><p>Dr. Shamyra Howard specifically says \u201cI recommend a rotation of sex toys for long term couples, including some type of quality wearable vibe which one partner can wear during foreplay or intercourse or a dual stimulating toy like a vibrating cock ring with a clitoral stimulator.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-93a94a0 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"93a94a0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-410ddc2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"410ddc2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Communicate What Feels Good<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d09272 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7d09272\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d93d549 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d93d549\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>One of the most important aspects of finding clitoral stimulation that feels good with a partner is communication. You need to tell them how something feels and what you\u2019d like to be different.<\/p><p>Try one word lines like \u201cmore,\u201d \u201cfaster,\u201d \u201cslower,\u201d \u201cup,\u201d and \u201cdown.\u201d You can say things like \u201cI want you to touch my clit\u201d or \u201cwill you move your finger in circles?\u201d You also get to use your body. Try holding your hand over your partner\u2019s hand and physically demonstrating how you want to be touched.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-19ffa5b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"19ffa5b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30b1315 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"30b1315\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Experiment Together<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-beed2bb e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"beed2bb\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-168f276 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"168f276\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Moving from the mindset that partnered sex is about getting to an orgasm and into the headspace of exploration can make sex much more enjoyable. Try choosing one type of clitoral stimulation, whether it\u2019s circles or up and down movement, and paying attention to what one specific touch feels like.<\/p><p>Consider asking \u201cWhat happens if\u201d questions versus yes or no questions. For example, \u201cWhat happens if I change the pressure?\u201d or \u201cWhat happens when I slow down?\u201d These questions keep you curious about the sensation instead of goal oriented thinking like \u201care you going to cum?\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f324ba1 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f324ba1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-42f7c33 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"42f7c33\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Try Positions That Simulate The Clitoris<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3ad8b78 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"3ad8b78\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9d73ff4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9d73ff4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>There are hundreds of possibilities for how to incorporate clitoral stimulation during sex. Here are few to try:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e5ef561 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e5ef561\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a37633e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a37633e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li><strong>Grinding<\/strong>: Ride your partner by rubbing your clitoris back and forth on their leg, stomach, chest, or penis, or vulva.<\/li><li><strong>Oral<\/strong>: Have your partner kiss, lick, or suck your clitoris.<\/li><li><strong>Touch your clitoris during penetration<\/strong>: Positions like reverse cowgirl, doggy style, or laying on your back on the edge of the bed, while your partner stands and penetrates you are all positions where the clitoris is more accessible.<\/li><li><strong>Couples vibrators<\/strong>: Use a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/sex-toys-for-couples\">couples vibrator<\/a> that is made for clitoral stimulation during penetration or other play.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c28f6ed e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c28f6ed\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6e665b7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6e665b7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Using Toys for Clitoral Stimulation<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-899a295 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"899a295\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-96349d5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"96349d5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>There are several different types of toys designed for clitoral stimulation, and each type of toy will create a different sensation, so there\u2019s some key things to know about each.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-19da6b2 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"19da6b2\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a79f221 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a79f221\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Clitoral Vibrators<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4e2d698 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"4e2d698\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a411786 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a411786\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li><strong>Bullet vibrators<\/strong>: Bullet vibrators typically have a tip designed to deliver concentrated stimulation to a smaller area. This will give you more targeted stimulation on the head of the clit.<\/li><li><strong>Wand vibrators<\/strong>: Wand vibrators are also designed for the clitoris, but have a more broad head so the stimulation is more dispersed across the clitoris.<\/li><li><strong>G-spot vibrators<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/sex-toys\/vibrators\/g-spot-vibrator?_gl=1*1q0ogte*_up*MQ..*_ga*MTMxNzQ3NDgxMi4xNzkwMDExMzk1*_ga_RG8NMYBXCS*czE3OTAwMTEzOTQkbzEkZzAkdDE3OTAwMTE0MzUkajE5JGwwJGgxODYyMDY1NTUx*_ga_R3EHJG10ZX*czE3OTAwMTEzOTQkbzEkZzAkdDE3OTAwMTE0MzUkajE5JGwwJGgw\">G-spot vibrators<\/a>, like the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/rave-2?_gl=1*1b1jdr9*_up*MQ..*_ga*MTMxNzQ3NDgxMi4xNzkwMDExMzk1*_ga_RG8NMYBXCS*czE3OTAwMTEzOTQkbzEkZzAkdDE3OTAwMTE0NTkkajYwJGwwJGgxODYyMDY1NTUx*_ga_R3EHJG10ZX*czE3OTAwMTEzOTQkbzEkZzAkdDE3OTAwMTE0NTkkajYwJGwwJGgw\">We-Vibe Rave 2<\/a>, can be used to stimulate parts of the clitoris from inside the vagina.<\/li><li><strong>Rabbit vibrators<\/strong>: Rabbit vibrators, like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/nova2?_gl=1*11s6n81*_up*MQ..*_ga*MTA1MzY4NjE0NS4xNzkwMDEwODM4*_ga_RG8NMYBXCS*czE3OTAwMTA4MzgkbzEkZzAkdDE3OTAwMTA4NDkkajQ5JGwwJGg4NDg4NDk0MTI.*_ga_R3EHJG10ZX*czE3OTAwMTA4MzgkbzEkZzAkdDE3OTAwMTA4NDkkajQ5JGwwJGgw\">We-Vibe Nova 2<\/a>, provide both internal stimulation of the g-spot, or internal clit, while simultaneously stimulating the clitoris externally.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d60835a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"d60835a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-83fd8dc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"83fd8dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Air-Pulse or Suction-Style Stimulation<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5c2c4df e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5c2c4df\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-507f2b8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"507f2b8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you want something different than vibration, there are air-pulse or suction-style stimulation toys made to target the clitoris. \u201cClitoral stimulation toys use air to stimulate the clitoris in a way that feels like suction and mimics oral sex,\u201d Dr. Jess O&#8217;Reilly explains. \u201cThese toys offer a variety of intensity levels and patterns to directly stimulate the clitoris.&#8221;<\/p><p>\u201cIf you\u2019re curious about suction toys but don\u2019t want the Rose or don&#8217;t want to jump into the deep end, this is the one to try. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/melt-2\">The Melt 2<\/a> uses air pressure to stimulate the clitoris without direct contact, so it&#8217;s gentle, precise, and feels a lot like a warm kiss that gets more intense the longer you stay with it,\u201d Dr. Shamyra Howard says.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0ae41e5 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"0ae41e5\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-48eef3e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"48eef3e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What If Clitoral Stimulation Feels Too Intense?  <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-58319a1 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"58319a1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9f5d5da elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9f5d5da\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Direct stimulation on the clitoris can sometimes feel uncomfortable or overstimulating. While the clitoris does get a lot of hype for being the key to unlocking better, more pleasurable sex, it simply isn\u2019t true for everyone. Every single person\u2019s body is different so there\u2019s no one thing that feels good for everyone.<\/p><p>If clitoral stimulation feels too intense, then don\u2019t do it! There\u2019s so many other erogenous zones on the body to explore, like the nipples, ears, lower stomach, back, between the thighs, the anus, vagina, or the area between the vagina and anus. If you find you have pain or challenging emotions associated with clitoral stimulation, then you might want to talk with a medical professional like pelvic floor PT, or a sex therapist.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-89a2ec7 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"89a2ec7\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5cc5969 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5cc5969\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"> Finding What Feels Good for You  <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2438d9c e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2438d9c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-480874b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"480874b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>There is no single clitoral stimulation technique that will feel good for everyone. Part of the fun is the process of figuring out what you or your partner enjoys. Try to genuinely lean into exploring and getting to know what clitoral stimulation feels like for you and how your body responds to it.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-af25518 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"af25518\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-94b9a1c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"94b9a1c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">FAQs<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-213e41e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"213e41e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c32990f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c32990f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How do you stimulate the clitoris during sex?  <\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c7e2279 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c7e2279\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-877fa6f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"877fa6f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tYou can stimulate the clitoris during sex by using moving fingers or a sex toys in a circular, side to side, or up and down motion on the clitoris. There are also wearable couples vibrators. \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7ae3be1 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7ae3be1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1602098 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1602098\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What is the best way to stimulate the clitoris?  <\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-faf5c0a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"faf5c0a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c624454 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c624454\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThe best way to stimulate the clitoris is different from person to person. To find the best way, experiment solo by trying different motions, pressure, rhythm and toys. If you\u2019re stimulating a partner, ask them what they like best\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5617265 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5617265\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-29719e9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"29719e9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why can clitoral stimulation feel too intense?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-230484b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"230484b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c94b722 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c94b722\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Clitoral stimulation can feel too intense because there are so many nerve endings that can make it overstimulating or even painful for some people.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1af1116 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1af1116\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2fbb0f5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2fbb0f5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How should a beginner choose a clitoral vibrator?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-402029b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"402029b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f1aaf2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6f1aaf2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>A beginner should choose a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.we-vibe.com\/us\/sex-toys\/vibrators\/clit-vibrator\">clitoral vibrator<\/a> by considering if you want concentrated stimulation on the clitoral head, like a bullet vibrator, or dispersed stimulation, like a wand. If you want to mimic oral sex, try a suction style toy.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ac333a9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"ac333a9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a269856 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a269856\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What should you do if clitoral stimulation feels uncomfortable?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d2b5be9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"d2b5be9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3b08327 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3b08327\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If clitoral stimulation is uncomfortable, don\u2019t do it! 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